A lot of the time we think that college is almost a waste of money, that all it’s really good for is giving us a piece of paper that hypothetically helps us get a job. I don’t argue that college is expensive. And I certainly don’t argue that it can help you get a job. But there are a few things that college has done for me after just one year that go beyond a piece of paper. Here are some of them…
Things I’ve learned and/or realized in my first year of college:
- Your friends make all the difference
- Home is not perfect
- I like to be in control of my own schedule and know what’s coming, also
- My planner is my best friend
- Some professors really care
- There’s so much I should have done differently in high school
- I like to have my mom to talk to
- The city of Kansas City actually spans 2 states
- What an ectopic pregnancy actually is
- The 4 temperaments and my temperament as a high-functioning phlegmatic/melancholic
- You can open your textbook once and still get an A in some classes (certainly doesn’t work in most classes)
- I need to control my emotions more and grow in temperance, fortitude, and charity
- I can ace an interview
- I have the spirit of an English major
- I don’t have to write fiction, I can live without it
- I have a tendency to let my friends distract me when I should be studying
- Gummy bears can be motivation for studying
- 5 hours really isn’t enough sleep
- I love Nanny 911
- English majors can be kinda eccentric or pretty quiet
- Follow your dream
- Certain things are worth getting up at 7am on a Saturday
- I need to investigate vaccines more
- You can get to know people pretty well pretty fast (like you’ll understand the meaning of an eyebrow raise after 8 mos.)
- I rely on my phone, a lot
- I’m actually a good student
- The “Catholic bubble” can be dangerous
- Just how stupid and non-loving most movie romances are
- I don’t want TV to be the center of my house
- Nutella is yummy
- Kids need structure
- People-first language
- Get down to your student’s eye level
- PTSD symptoms can be found in urban youth
- “Disability is a natural part of the human experience”
- A little bit about ABA therapy for children with autism
- I’ve learned to let go a little bit
- Special education really interests me
- When it comes to the grounds for a solid friendship the deeper issues like family and morals matter much more than the shallow ones like what type of movies you enjoy
- I go to a pretty amazing college đ
- BC is where God meant me to be
Things I’ve done in my first year of college
- Been about 3 yards away from Paul Ryan
- Aced an interview
- Went to my first March for Life, which means I also
- Survived a 26 hour bus ride to the March, and
- Visited D.C. for the first time, and
- Saw the Library of Congress
- I Saw Rick Santorum speak
- Got onto Pinterest
- Heard Immaculee Ilibagiza speak
- Stayed in a hotel with some great girl friends
- Went on a trip to Kansas City’s Plaza shopping district
- Went to the Nelson-Atkins art museum
- Went to the National World War I Memorial
- Successfully wore a beanie for a week
- Lived independently
- Donated blood for the first time
- Went 48 hours without my cell phone, Pinterest, or Facebook
- Persevered in my dream to go to Europe (so far…)
- Used nail stickers
- Calculated expenses
- Declared my major in Elementary Education with concentrations in English and Special Ed
- Nurtured my faith-life
- Saw Matt Maher in concert
- Saw Audrey Assad in concert
- Prayed outside of an abortion clinic
- Saw Archbishop Naumann of KCK at least 3 times, probably more
- Got on the Dean’s List first semester
- Got on the President’s List second semester
- Made it to daily Mass a lot
- Went to a emotional panel of post-abortive women
- Was signed up for an hour of Adoration each week of second semester
- Was offered a position with campus ministry and the scholarship to go with it
- Successfully helped out at Baccalaureate Mass; our work got a resounding approval from our chaplain/boss
- Heard Leah Darrow speak
- Had my first real job
- Went swing dancing
- Learned the nightclub two step dance
- Voted for President
- Stayed up to watch part of the St. Kateri canonization Mass
- Was a tutor/teacher’s aid as part of my Intro to Ed class
- Completed a 10 page paper
- Hosted a prospie (prospective student)
- Started a blog đ
- Was part of a chorale group
- Rested in the peace of knowing BC is where I was meant to be
I always knew college would be about a lot more than just book-learning for me. But I don’t think I realized how much I would accomplish and learn and do. And this is only after one year!